How this method builds discipline, habits & growth
- Aaron Abreu
- Mar 23
- 3 min read
Updated: Mar 23
Systems beat motivation. Discipline gets you started. Consistency keeps you going.
Why This Matters
Self-improvement isn’t about superhuman motivation. It’s about design.
• Leaders don’t rise because they’re always fired up. They build routines and systems that keep working—even when they don’t feel like it.

How discipline helped me with habits and growth
I hadn’t run long distance since 2018. A knee injury sidelined me, and I told myself I’d get back to it eventually.
That “eventually” turned into five years.
But a few months ago, I felt the pull again—to test myself, to move, to appreciate what my body could still do. So I signed up for a series of races, starting with the 17.75k in Quantico, Virginia.
• The hills were brutal.
• I had music in my ears—but louder than the playlist was a voice in my head: You can do this.
• And step by step, I believed it.
I finished strong—not because of motivation in the moment, but because I trained for it. I showed up for weeks when it wasn’t sexy or exciting. This is where the discipline helped me with developing the right habits for my growth.
That’s when it clicked: the same structure that got me through those hills applies to every area of life.
The 3 Pillars: Discipline, Consistency, Systems
I didn’t finish that race on inspiration—I finished it with structure.
Let me walk you through the framework I used to train for the hills… and that I now use for everything else:
The DCS Method — Discipline. Consistency. Systems.

1. Discipline: The Currency of Excellence
Discipline gets you moving, especially when comfort begs you to stay put.
• Use time-blocking. Schedule focused work—even 25-minute blocks—to protect your goals from distractions.
Example: A CFO who blocks 8–9am daily for deep work avoids email traps and gets strategic tasks done.
• Limit decision fatigue. Stick to a morning routine or simplified meals.
Example: A founder eats the same breakfast every day to save brainpower for bigger decisions.
2. Consistency: The Trust Builder
Progress is built in daily reps, not rare bursts.
• Create identity-based habits. Act like the person you want to become—even in small ways.
Example: Want to be a better communicator? Start by summarizing every meeting in 3 bullet points.
• Make the reps easy to repeat. Don’t aim for perfect; aim for repeatable.
Example: Instead of an hour-long workout, do 20 minutes daily and never miss twice.
3. Systems: The Safety Net for Success
You don’t rise to your goals—you fall to your systems.
• Build feedback loops. Set weekly check-ins to assess progress.
Example: A sales team leader reviews metrics every Friday and adjusts targets in real-time.
• Automate what drains you. Use tools or outsourcing for admin tasks.
Example: A COO uses AI tools to summarize reports, saving hours weekly.
Start Small: What You Can Do Today
✅ Audit Your Habits: Write down one habit that’s helping you—and one that’s holding you back. Awareness is the first step to change.
✅ Schedule One Thing: Block just 30 minutes this week for deep, focused work. Protect it like a meeting. Progress loves structure.
✅ Build One Simple System: Choose one task you repeat often and create a system for it. A checklist, a time block, or a template—make it easy to win daily.
📚 Read This: Resources to Go Deeper
Because the right book at the right time can change everything.
📘 Atomic Habits by James Clear — for building tiny, sticky behaviors that scale
📘 Deep Work by Cal Newport — on eliminating distractions for meaningful output
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